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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 17.06.2025 02:27

How does one succeed in life?

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

In what ways Indian parents are destroying their children's life?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

At what point does trespassing become self defense? What are the necessary conditions for this line to be crossed from trespassing to self defense?

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

How can people balance religious beliefs with seeking professional mental health care?

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Do narcissists love their children?

Procrastinates a lot.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Hangs out with loser friends.

How can someone in your family purposely try to destroy your reputation?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Does not procrastinate.

Are there any more 'nun' jokes?

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Ask yourself:

How is sex in college like with roommates and big campuses?

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Does having the wrong address on my car insurance invalidate my policy?

Making more friends is a goal.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Why did my crush like me for only two days in a row?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

How is it, in the USA, a country with 334 million people, the choice of President comes down to two aged men, one of whom is a liar as well as a criminal, one who appears to be on his way to dementia. Surely a democratic country can put up better?

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

That's it for today.

Why doesn't California have the tools, people, means to put out these fires even though they know there will be fires every year?

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Why do people believe that global warming is man made?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

What I need from you?

Do not set goals—set systems.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.